"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Confused about girls flirting

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Rarley do I feel as though girls are attracted to me, and when they seem to be flirty, it seems that way with every other guy aswell.


Im not sure exactly what im doing wrong.. im sure i Know what to look for...

Maybe the question is what do i need to attract woman other ways than physical features?



thanks for any tips


oh and I will look around for a thread like this.. maybe redirect me if you know of one
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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be interesting, be a somebody, try not to show the girls too much attention, but listen to them. Almost everyone loves to hear themselves talk, and when someone is there listening, it opens up a special bond. As the game said "A PUA must be different, the exception to the rule" Don't try and be like everyone else, or else you won't be remembered. Be unique for who you are and practice, practice, practice, learn what works well for you.
 

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ok cool thanks


I should take a look at the dj bible?

Is there a highschool version?

I'll search too
 

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Hah, sounds good man

Thanks for the quik responses... really appreciated
 

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Whatevs post this $hit on the discussion i come to this side of the forum for tips not discussions
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Rocko said:
Almost everyone loves to hear themselves talk, and when someone is there listening, it opens up a special bond.
Well put and very true. Those kind of conversation with people will get you big points when it comes to feeling of importance. If you let her talk she will listen for hours.
 
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