"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Rarley do I feel as though girls are attracted to me, and when they seem to be flirty, it seems that way with every other guy aswell.


Im not sure exactly what im doing wrong.. im sure i Know what to look for...

Maybe the question is what do i need to attract woman other ways than physical features?



thanks for any tips


oh and I will look around for a thread like this.. maybe redirect me if you know of one
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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be interesting, be a somebody, try not to show the girls too much attention, but listen to them. Almost everyone loves to hear themselves talk, and when someone is there listening, it opens up a special bond. As the game said "A PUA must be different, the exception to the rule" Don't try and be like everyone else, or else you won't be remembered. Be unique for who you are and practice, practice, practice, learn what works well for you.
 

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ok cool thanks


I should take a look at the dj bible?

Is there a highschool version?

I'll search too
 

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Hah, sounds good man

Thanks for the quik responses... really appreciated
 

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Whatevs post this $hit on the discussion i come to this side of the forum for tips not discussions
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Rocko said:
Almost everyone loves to hear themselves talk, and when someone is there listening, it opens up a special bond.
Well put and very true. Those kind of conversation with people will get you big points when it comes to feeling of importance. If you let her talk she will listen for hours.
 
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