NSUballer
Senior Don Juan
hey i cheated inhigh school too, i didnt think it was too serious, maybe cuz i didnt really give a fvck. mater of fact im in college and i still cheat i mean bend the rules in my favor sometimes....
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
That's genius.I had a shytty boss, so I paid a prostitute to call his house and act as a mistress, his wife left him.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Same here,but who cares. We are both young and should be focusing on our careers,then starting a family.T Money said:I have intimacy issues. Relationships have never worked out for me, they always end up with the girl losing interest.
Same here!!!! i'm freakin crazy....johnmich said:when a girl comes on to me i get scared and push her away, and i think its cos im worried about what people'll say.
Stupid but im fixing it.
~sex at age 5, my god, but it sounded like something kids do when they dont know what it means.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Yeah they defenitely come on to me. I don't ever PUSH anything unless they are willing. I'm the kind of guy that waits for her to make the first move, then I take it from there.Got a question for you T-Money.
Do you find that chicks come on to you more now? Rather than you persuing them... in intimate connections?
Wondering if your young experience set up a frame of such in your mind, and now it still plays itself out?
Learn what he does. Observe him like a hawk. Notices how he deals with different situations.Dark Haired Alpha said:OK, I have to tell someone and I don't want it to be my mom because I would feel like a complete pvssy.
There is an alpha in our class. He's the dominant one, the powerful personality type and I envy him. Actually, I rarely envy anyone, but I do envy him and it decreases my self-esteem and the ability to enjoy myself when he's around (which becomes a problem when he's in my class). I feel like a hater.
I noticed this thread is not going to be "therapy", but someone with similar experince, please help.
Damn, I feel like a wimp by writing this![]()
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
T Money said:This thread is for anything you have to confess that would make you feel better as a person. Things you are not necessarily proud of, but would like to get off your chest to clear you conscience a bit.
Know this:
We do NOT know you. We will NOT judge you based on what you confess.
This thread is for YOU only.
Each poster posts 1 confession, and if he/she feels like posting others, wait until a reply.
My first confession:
I had sex when I was 5.
Haha thats not tood bad, I slept with my roomates GF and he never found out, and i banged his sister, and he never found out...just call me a dirtbag.....Bat said:I met a hot chick at a local bar, I banged her that night in my apartment ... I got Hepatitis B. I was sick for like 3 months :nervous:
I am clean now![]()
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.