NSUballer
Senior Don Juan
hey i cheated inhigh school too, i didnt think it was too serious, maybe cuz i didnt really give a fvck. mater of fact im in college and i still cheat i mean bend the rules in my favor sometimes....
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
That's genius.I had a shytty boss, so I paid a prostitute to call his house and act as a mistress, his wife left him.
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Same here,but who cares. We are both young and should be focusing on our careers,then starting a family.T Money said:I have intimacy issues. Relationships have never worked out for me, they always end up with the girl losing interest.
Same here!!!! i'm freakin crazy....johnmich said:when a girl comes on to me i get scared and push her away, and i think its cos im worried about what people'll say.
Stupid but im fixing it.
~sex at age 5, my god, but it sounded like something kids do when they dont know what it means.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Yeah they defenitely come on to me. I don't ever PUSH anything unless they are willing. I'm the kind of guy that waits for her to make the first move, then I take it from there.Got a question for you T-Money.
Do you find that chicks come on to you more now? Rather than you persuing them... in intimate connections?
Wondering if your young experience set up a frame of such in your mind, and now it still plays itself out?
Learn what he does. Observe him like a hawk. Notices how he deals with different situations.Dark Haired Alpha said:OK, I have to tell someone and I don't want it to be my mom because I would feel like a complete pvssy.
There is an alpha in our class. He's the dominant one, the powerful personality type and I envy him. Actually, I rarely envy anyone, but I do envy him and it decreases my self-esteem and the ability to enjoy myself when he's around (which becomes a problem when he's in my class). I feel like a hater.
I noticed this thread is not going to be "therapy", but someone with similar experince, please help.
Damn, I feel like a wimp by writing this![]()
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
T Money said:This thread is for anything you have to confess that would make you feel better as a person. Things you are not necessarily proud of, but would like to get off your chest to clear you conscience a bit.
Know this:
We do NOT know you. We will NOT judge you based on what you confess.
This thread is for YOU only.
Each poster posts 1 confession, and if he/she feels like posting others, wait until a reply.
My first confession:
I had sex when I was 5.
Haha thats not tood bad, I slept with my roomates GF and he never found out, and i banged his sister, and he never found out...just call me a dirtbag.....Bat said:I met a hot chick at a local bar, I banged her that night in my apartment ... I got Hepatitis B. I was sick for like 3 months :nervous:
I am clean now![]()
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.