"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Tha Realnezz

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"forget them, let's go have sex."

^That's a good line.Lil' ***** had game.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Originally posted by Tha Realnezz
"forget them, let's go have sex."

^That's a good line.Lil' ***** had game.
LOL :crackup:
 

T Money

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lol. She saw what she want and took it!

See I don't know whether to call myself a pimp or a sick **** for what happened.
 

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My Confession:
I've lied on a message board...and people BELIEVED ME!!
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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T Money

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I'm a dirtbag. After I slept with my best friends girlfriend, they broke up and I started dating her without telling him. He just found out.
 

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T Money: you need help. thats seriously twisted. I'm not trying to offend u but u really have some problems, especially re: porn. That's illegal.
 

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I am also worrying about my looks more than my personality, but one confession would definitely be that im 17 but I feel like crying all of the time. Sometimes I will. Its either from my parents or girls or just failing in life. I hate losing.
 

KingBeef

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aolDJ said:
T Money: you need help. thats seriously twisted. I'm not trying to offend u but u really have some problems, especially re: porn. That's illegal.
Dude, remember....PEOPLE ARE HERE TO CONFESS...NOT CRITICIZE!!!! AND NO JUDGING.... EVERYONE has something to confess about...EVEN YOU!!!!
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Im afraid to fall in love. So I just pretend that I have genuine feelings for girls and then put them in the friend zone so I can sleep with them without getting my feelings hurt again (which is what brought me to this site). Mean as hell I know but just screwing her before them before they screw me.

It actually works out pretty well b/c I have four girls that call me out of the blue every now and then and come over for sex. And I dont have to go through all the boyfriend crap. I suggest this for those who have relationship issues. Just cant see myself trying to get married as its sure to end in divorce. I also think married people are suckers (sorry). The only love you can trust will be there is family.

I know, I know. Im screwed up
 

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sexualchocolate said:
Im afraid to fall in love. So I just pretend that I have genuine feelings for girls and then put them in the friend zone so I can sleep with them without getting my feelings hurt again (which is what brought me to this site). Mean as hell I know but just screwing her before them before they screw me.

It actually works out pretty well b/c I have four girls that call me out of the blue every now and then and come over for sex. And I dont have to go through all the boyfriend crap. I suggest this for those who have relationship issues. Just cant see myself trying to get married as its sure to end in divorce. I also think married people are suckers (sorry). The only love you can trust will be there is family.

I know, I know. Im screwed up

Dude, don't kill yourself.... funny how life is....you can get aZZ with such ease and won't let a girl touch your heart....a lot of us have difficulty getting a girl and if we're lucky would spill our hearts out to them like nothing...life is crazy like that....
 

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Yes I do need help. I'm more concerned about myself betraying my best friend like that. I don't even deserve his friendship. Plus her and I aren't even dating anymore so now it's just like "Well, was it worth it dude?" FVCK NO it wasn't! Life's crazy. It's good and bad.
 

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KingBeef nailed it, it would take one he11 of a woman to get to my heart cuz the rest only get the d1ck.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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when a girl comes on to me i get scared and push her away, and i think its cos im worried about what people'll say.

Stupid but im fixing it.

~sex at age 5, my god, but it sounded like something kids do when they dont know what it means.
 

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Well, mine aren't as serious as some of the others, and my best wishes goes out to all of you guys

My confession:

I have cheated most of my way through High School, including AP tests and what not, I have also lied to myself, and for some reason get angry when family members of mine are ignorant (I don't know why, its not like its their fault, i just get so worked up about it)
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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