"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Tha Realnezz

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"forget them, let's go have sex."

^That's a good line.Lil' ***** had game.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Originally posted by Tha Realnezz
"forget them, let's go have sex."

^That's a good line.Lil' ***** had game.
LOL :crackup:
 

T Money

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lol. She saw what she want and took it!

See I don't know whether to call myself a pimp or a sick **** for what happened.
 

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My Confession:
I've lied on a message board...and people BELIEVED ME!!
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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T Money

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I'm a dirtbag. After I slept with my best friends girlfriend, they broke up and I started dating her without telling him. He just found out.
 

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T Money: you need help. thats seriously twisted. I'm not trying to offend u but u really have some problems, especially re: porn. That's illegal.
 

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I am also worrying about my looks more than my personality, but one confession would definitely be that im 17 but I feel like crying all of the time. Sometimes I will. Its either from my parents or girls or just failing in life. I hate losing.
 

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aolDJ said:
T Money: you need help. thats seriously twisted. I'm not trying to offend u but u really have some problems, especially re: porn. That's illegal.
Dude, remember....PEOPLE ARE HERE TO CONFESS...NOT CRITICIZE!!!! AND NO JUDGING.... EVERYONE has something to confess about...EVEN YOU!!!!
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Im afraid to fall in love. So I just pretend that I have genuine feelings for girls and then put them in the friend zone so I can sleep with them without getting my feelings hurt again (which is what brought me to this site). Mean as hell I know but just screwing her before them before they screw me.

It actually works out pretty well b/c I have four girls that call me out of the blue every now and then and come over for sex. And I dont have to go through all the boyfriend crap. I suggest this for those who have relationship issues. Just cant see myself trying to get married as its sure to end in divorce. I also think married people are suckers (sorry). The only love you can trust will be there is family.

I know, I know. Im screwed up
 

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sexualchocolate said:
Im afraid to fall in love. So I just pretend that I have genuine feelings for girls and then put them in the friend zone so I can sleep with them without getting my feelings hurt again (which is what brought me to this site). Mean as hell I know but just screwing her before them before they screw me.

It actually works out pretty well b/c I have four girls that call me out of the blue every now and then and come over for sex. And I dont have to go through all the boyfriend crap. I suggest this for those who have relationship issues. Just cant see myself trying to get married as its sure to end in divorce. I also think married people are suckers (sorry). The only love you can trust will be there is family.

I know, I know. Im screwed up

Dude, don't kill yourself.... funny how life is....you can get aZZ with such ease and won't let a girl touch your heart....a lot of us have difficulty getting a girl and if we're lucky would spill our hearts out to them like nothing...life is crazy like that....
 

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Yes I do need help. I'm more concerned about myself betraying my best friend like that. I don't even deserve his friendship. Plus her and I aren't even dating anymore so now it's just like "Well, was it worth it dude?" FVCK NO it wasn't! Life's crazy. It's good and bad.
 

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KingBeef nailed it, it would take one he11 of a woman to get to my heart cuz the rest only get the d1ck.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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johnmich

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when a girl comes on to me i get scared and push her away, and i think its cos im worried about what people'll say.

Stupid but im fixing it.

~sex at age 5, my god, but it sounded like something kids do when they dont know what it means.
 

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Well, mine aren't as serious as some of the others, and my best wishes goes out to all of you guys

My confession:

I have cheated most of my way through High School, including AP tests and what not, I have also lied to myself, and for some reason get angry when family members of mine are ignorant (I don't know why, its not like its their fault, i just get so worked up about it)
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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