"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
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On a serious note, many STDs can be transmitted by oral sex of all kinds, so wear it!
edited to fix a typo that completely changed the meaning of the post...
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same hereNSUballer said:it would have to be a pretty nasty chic to have std's in her mouth...ive never worn a condom for a bj...but thats just me
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
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brett012 said:You can get STD's from oral? Can someone explain? I never knew about this. I thought the only way to get STD's from a bl0wjob was if the woman had a cut in her mouth and the guy had a cut on his d!ck.
What are the chances?
I heard the chances of getting an STD from oral sex is very very slim. Unless of course she has herpes or a cold sore in or around her mouth while she's blowing you.
I think even catching HIV/AIDS is also very slim (like <1% chance).
It's not just a "type" of herpes, it is oral herpes. And not everyone has had one. I sure haven't. So I've managed to steer clear of girls with oral herpes. So far anyway.Potbelly said:er...you guys do know that when you get cold sores it's a type of herpes right?
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.