"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
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On a serious note, many STDs can be transmitted by oral sex of all kinds, so wear it!
edited to fix a typo that completely changed the meaning of the post...
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same hereNSUballer said:it would have to be a pretty nasty chic to have std's in her mouth...ive never worn a condom for a bj...but thats just me
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
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brett012 said:You can get STD's from oral? Can someone explain? I never knew about this. I thought the only way to get STD's from a bl0wjob was if the woman had a cut in her mouth and the guy had a cut on his d!ck.
What are the chances?
I heard the chances of getting an STD from oral sex is very very slim. Unless of course she has herpes or a cold sore in or around her mouth while she's blowing you.
I think even catching HIV/AIDS is also very slim (like <1% chance).
It's not just a "type" of herpes, it is oral herpes. And not everyone has had one. I sure haven't. So I've managed to steer clear of girls with oral herpes. So far anyway.Potbelly said:er...you guys do know that when you get cold sores it's a type of herpes right?
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.