"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
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On a serious note, many STDs can be transmitted by oral sex of all kinds, so wear it!
edited to fix a typo that completely changed the meaning of the post...
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same hereNSUballer said:it would have to be a pretty nasty chic to have std's in her mouth...ive never worn a condom for a bj...but thats just me
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
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brett012 said:You can get STD's from oral? Can someone explain? I never knew about this. I thought the only way to get STD's from a bl0wjob was if the woman had a cut in her mouth and the guy had a cut on his d!ck.
What are the chances?
I heard the chances of getting an STD from oral sex is very very slim. Unless of course she has herpes or a cold sore in or around her mouth while she's blowing you.
I think even catching HIV/AIDS is also very slim (like <1% chance).
It's not just a "type" of herpes, it is oral herpes. And not everyone has had one. I sure haven't. So I've managed to steer clear of girls with oral herpes. So far anyway.Potbelly said:er...you guys do know that when you get cold sores it's a type of herpes right?
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.