"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

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Condom for blow job?

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MackJr

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Like the title, do you use a condom when you get a blow job?

Most people don't I would think, but I'm asking about the relative risk.
 

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She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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suck on a condom for awhile and see how it tastes.....did you really ask this question?
 

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Realistically, be with a girl whom you trust and has been tested recently and a condom is a mute point. Unless she gargles your *** then spits it into her pvssy and gets pregnant. Not sure if you'd have liability there, since it was her improper handling of hazardous substances that resulted in her pregnanacy.

Spring the condom thing on a girl during a hookup and she's not gonna suck on anything. Not unless it's flavored. And more than likely, not at all.

So again, I reiterate...don't get with sketchy girls who could have cold sores and you won't be worrying.



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No, what I mean is that even though the "health people" recommend a condom for oral sex, I don't think anyone pays any attention.

How do the really experienced DJs handle their risk. Do they just all have herpes or is it rarer than what one would think?
 

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It's still a risk no matter how you look at it. I'm positive the risk is much lower but it really doesn't matter when you're gambling with STDs. A risk is a risk. I agree with the post above in that you should feel comfortable/trusting enough with the person you're with.
For me it's just not worth it to get a blow from a random chick only to find out months later that I got an STD. However, I have slipped up before. Sometimes the temptation is just too much.
 

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You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Whatever, man.

I wear my STDs like medals of honor. They're like trophies that say you've been getting some action.
 

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dude they are called oral condoms
they taste like different flavors
 

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Whatever, man.

I wear my STDs like medals of honor. They're like trophies that say you've been getting some action.
:crackup: lol

I seriously would consider doing this (wearing a condom while receiving oral sex) as I had a bit of a scare a while back, but, thankfully it turned out to be only a temp. prob! Was a good blow all the same...

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I once insisted that a chick use a condom before she went down. I didn't feel ****. The feeling was more psychological than anything else. Its your call.
 

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Originally posted by penkitten
dude they are called oral condoms
they taste like different flavors
Those flavored condoms are marked, "Novelty use only". They don't actually offer any protection. You know that right?

I guess it's just a risk
 

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You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

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Just about the only STD ur gunna get from oral sex is herpes. And thats pretty much only if she is in the middle of an outbreak.

I have never heard of anyone using a condom for a *******, i dont really see the point, i doubt you will feel anything. May as well just not bother with oral at all if ur gunna use one.
 
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