"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Compliments...?

Lozz

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Ok now compliments are something which girls love to hear and I give them now and again but I'm just not used to it.

I dunno why.

My gf always says that I never compliment her and her ex always did (which I didn't like).

I dont wanna seem like now I'm doing as she asked but I want her to feel good about herself, and I want her to know that I do like her.
I want to compliment her in a way no-one else could (including her ex).

Any recommendations or solutions to help me pay more compliments?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Mojo604

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Complements have to be well timed and in the right places, about the right things. Like when she takes like half an hour doing her hair or something, then you complement her on that later that night, or something.
just dont kiss too much ass, dont wanna get too close to the asscrack, and start displaying nice guy behaviour.
 

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Originally posted by Lozz
Any recommendations or solutions to help me pay more compliments?
Sure. Pay attention to details - if she gets a haircut, notice. If she buys a new shirt just to wear when you go out one night, notice. If she just shaved her coochie in anticipation of tonight, notice. :p Noticing isn't enough though - you have to step it up from simple acknowledgement of the fact into an expressment of pleasure over the fact. "I really like XXX" is a classic (no, not I really like XXX porn). :rolleyes:
 

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There's nothing wrong with complimenting her just make sure you don't do it too much. If you compliment her too much you'll be putting her on a pedestal and you'll get written off as a nice guy.

I don't recommend complimenting more than once per date.
 

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Compliments are earned, not given.

But you can be like every other AFC and compliment her every single time, and she
will definately NEXT YOU!
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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those were exactly my thoughts which is why i hardly ever do it now. cheers
 
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