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Ok now compliments are something which girls love to hear and I give them now and again but I'm just not used to it.

I dunno why.

My gf always says that I never compliment her and her ex always did (which I didn't like).

I dont wanna seem like now I'm doing as she asked but I want her to feel good about herself, and I want her to know that I do like her.
I want to compliment her in a way no-one else could (including her ex).

Any recommendations or solutions to help me pay more compliments?
 

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Complements have to be well timed and in the right places, about the right things. Like when she takes like half an hour doing her hair or something, then you complement her on that later that night, or something.
just dont kiss too much ass, dont wanna get too close to the asscrack, and start displaying nice guy behaviour.
 
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Originally posted by Lozz
Any recommendations or solutions to help me pay more compliments?
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Sure. Pay attention to details - if she gets a haircut, notice. If she buys a new shirt just to wear when you go out one night, notice. If she just shaved her coochie in anticipation of tonight, notice. :p Noticing isn't enough though - you have to step it up from simple acknowledgement of the fact into an expressment of pleasure over the fact. "I really like XXX" is a classic (no, not I really like XXX porn). :rolleyes:
 
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There's nothing wrong with complimenting her just make sure you don't do it too much. If you compliment her too much you'll be putting her on a pedestal and you'll get written off as a nice guy.

I don't recommend complimenting more than once per date.
 
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Compliments are earned, not given.

But you can be like every other AFC and compliment her every single time, and she
will definately NEXT YOU!
 

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That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

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those were exactly my thoughts which is why i hardly ever do it now. cheers
 
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