"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Compliments...?

Lozz

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Ok now compliments are something which girls love to hear and I give them now and again but I'm just not used to it.

I dunno why.

My gf always says that I never compliment her and her ex always did (which I didn't like).

I dont wanna seem like now I'm doing as she asked but I want her to feel good about herself, and I want her to know that I do like her.
I want to compliment her in a way no-one else could (including her ex).

Any recommendations or solutions to help me pay more compliments?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Mojo604

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Complements have to be well timed and in the right places, about the right things. Like when she takes like half an hour doing her hair or something, then you complement her on that later that night, or something.
just dont kiss too much ass, dont wanna get too close to the asscrack, and start displaying nice guy behaviour.
 

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Originally posted by Lozz
Any recommendations or solutions to help me pay more compliments?
Sure. Pay attention to details - if she gets a haircut, notice. If she buys a new shirt just to wear when you go out one night, notice. If she just shaved her coochie in anticipation of tonight, notice. :p Noticing isn't enough though - you have to step it up from simple acknowledgement of the fact into an expressment of pleasure over the fact. "I really like XXX" is a classic (no, not I really like XXX porn). :rolleyes:
 

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There's nothing wrong with complimenting her just make sure you don't do it too much. If you compliment her too much you'll be putting her on a pedestal and you'll get written off as a nice guy.

I don't recommend complimenting more than once per date.
 

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Compliments are earned, not given.

But you can be like every other AFC and compliment her every single time, and she
will definately NEXT YOU!
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

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Lozz

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those were exactly my thoughts which is why i hardly ever do it now. cheers
 
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