"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Jeremymichael

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Hi Everyone,

I keep getting compliments from this lady who is about 6 years older than me.
Last night, whilst we were out drinking she said I was such a lovely man and that I am an icon. She keeps buying me drinks.

It keeps happening week in week out and in front everyone and its getting quite embarassing. However I don't really fancy her!, so not sure what to do?.

Thanks,

Jez
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Charm&Style

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You are getting FREE drinks by a lady 6 years older and that's embarrassing :crazy: ?

Play it cool with her, if you don't fancy her then don't give any mixed signals which lead her. A women at that age can get pretty psychotic. Act exactly how you currently are and enjoy the flow of compliments and free drinks. You're friends are probably jealous anyways:moon:
 
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princelydeeds

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A grown man who doesn't know how to take a compliment........? Wow, man up dude!!
 
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COD

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YOU-thanx, I agree I am an ICON, I aint that easy sister just cause U buy me a drink does not mean you are getting any AMAZING ORAL from me, you are going to have to do WAY better than a drin and some cheesy pickup lines to land a bloke like me.......I'm high maintenance, you couldnt handle me anyways.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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