"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Jeremymichael

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Hi Everyone,

I keep getting compliments from this lady who is about 6 years older than me.
Last night, whilst we were out drinking she said I was such a lovely man and that I am an icon. She keeps buying me drinks.

It keeps happening week in week out and in front everyone and its getting quite embarassing. However I don't really fancy her!, so not sure what to do?.

Thanks,

Jez
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Charm&Style

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You are getting FREE drinks by a lady 6 years older and that's embarrassing :crazy: ?

Play it cool with her, if you don't fancy her then don't give any mixed signals which lead her. A women at that age can get pretty psychotic. Act exactly how you currently are and enjoy the flow of compliments and free drinks. You're friends are probably jealous anyways:moon:
 
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A grown man who doesn't know how to take a compliment........? Wow, man up dude!!
 
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YOU-thanx, I agree I am an ICON, I aint that easy sister just cause U buy me a drink does not mean you are getting any AMAZING ORAL from me, you are going to have to do WAY better than a drin and some cheesy pickup lines to land a bloke like me.......I'm high maintenance, you couldnt handle me anyways.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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