"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Jeremymichael

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Hi Everyone,

I keep getting compliments from this lady who is about 6 years older than me.
Last night, whilst we were out drinking she said I was such a lovely man and that I am an icon. She keeps buying me drinks.

It keeps happening week in week out and in front everyone and its getting quite embarassing. However I don't really fancy her!, so not sure what to do?.

Thanks,

Jez
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Charm&Style

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You are getting FREE drinks by a lady 6 years older and that's embarrassing :crazy: ?

Play it cool with her, if you don't fancy her then don't give any mixed signals which lead her. A women at that age can get pretty psychotic. Act exactly how you currently are and enjoy the flow of compliments and free drinks. You're friends are probably jealous anyways:moon:
 
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princelydeeds

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A grown man who doesn't know how to take a compliment........? Wow, man up dude!!
 
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COD

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YOU-thanx, I agree I am an ICON, I aint that easy sister just cause U buy me a drink does not mean you are getting any AMAZING ORAL from me, you are going to have to do WAY better than a drin and some cheesy pickup lines to land a bloke like me.......I'm high maintenance, you couldnt handle me anyways.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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