"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Jeremymichael

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Hi Everyone,

I keep getting compliments from this lady who is about 6 years older than me.
Last night, whilst we were out drinking she said I was such a lovely man and that I am an icon. She keeps buying me drinks.

It keeps happening week in week out and in front everyone and its getting quite embarassing. However I don't really fancy her!, so not sure what to do?.

Thanks,

Jez
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Charm&Style

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You are getting FREE drinks by a lady 6 years older and that's embarrassing :crazy: ?

Play it cool with her, if you don't fancy her then don't give any mixed signals which lead her. A women at that age can get pretty psychotic. Act exactly how you currently are and enjoy the flow of compliments and free drinks. You're friends are probably jealous anyways:moon:
 
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princelydeeds

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A grown man who doesn't know how to take a compliment........? Wow, man up dude!!
 
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COD

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YOU-thanx, I agree I am an ICON, I aint that easy sister just cause U buy me a drink does not mean you are getting any AMAZING ORAL from me, you are going to have to do WAY better than a drin and some cheesy pickup lines to land a bloke like me.......I'm high maintenance, you couldnt handle me anyways.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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