compliments

[logicallefty]

My GF has been nagging on me A LOT lately telling me that I don't compliment her enough.. Come to think of it, she is right.. I don't ever compliment her at all, ever... I have many good things to say about her in my mind all the time. However, I know how bad too much complimenting can be. Been there done that.

How is this situation best handled? How can you compliment them JUST enough but not a drop more than you need to?

 

[slaog]

Compliment on some things about her that you like. Once in a while is best and maybe the best time to do it is when she leasts expects it.


Make sure the compliments are sincere i.e only compliment the things YOU like about her.

 

[dadmonson]

My GF has been nagging on me A LOT lately telling me that I don't compliment her enough.. Come to think of it, she is right.. I don't ever compliment her at all, ever... I have many good things to say about her in my mind all the time. However, I know how bad too much complimenting can be. Been there done that.

How is this situation best handled? How can you compliment them JUST enough but not a drop more than you need to?

Does she compliment you?

 

[logicallefty]

Does she compliment you?

All the time.

 

[trd323]

Compliment on some things about her that you like. Once in a while is best and maybe the best time to do it is when she leasts expects it.


Make sure the compliments are sincere i.e only compliment the things YOU like about her.

Agree.

Also, She is your girlfriend, so treat her like your queen, but never lose your "frame". Just like with any interaction with a woman, never expect an outcome.

 

[Metaphysical]

you need to learn how to give her genuine and truthful compliments, without inflating her ego or her head about how 'hot' she is or whatever most chumps do

 

[logicallefty]

you need to learn how to give her genuine and truthful compliments, without inflating her ego or her head about how 'hot' she is or whatever most chumps do

I agree totally... And thanks for the feedback everybody.

 

[SinJester]

GAH

As much as I love the DJ Bible I'm getting sick of the bull**** that comes with it.

YOU ARE ALLOWED TO COMPLIMENT GIRLS

Do you guys know naturals in real life? No not jerks that get women but NATURALS who makes women feel good and women love them. They compliment women all the time!

If you have good things in your mind but you aren't saying them you are acting AFC.

At the same time if you are thinking something bad but you compliment her or keep quiet that is also being AFC. You are worrying about this one far too much. You aren't balenced.

The rule to go by if you think about whether you should compliment or not is simply "is this honest?"

Here's a little something else: http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=150876