"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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My GF has been nagging on me A LOT lately telling me that I don't compliment her enough.. Come to think of it, she is right.. I don't ever compliment her at all, ever... I have many good things to say about her in my mind all the time. However, I know how bad too much complimenting can be. Been there done that.

How is this situation best handled? How can you compliment them JUST enough but not a drop more than you need to?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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logicallefty said:
My GF has been nagging on me A LOT lately telling me that I don't compliment her enough.. Come to think of it, she is right.. I don't ever compliment her at all, ever... I have many good things to say about her in my mind all the time. However, I know how bad too much complimenting can be. Been there done that.

How is this situation best handled? How can you compliment them JUST enough but not a drop more than you need to?
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Does she compliment you?
 
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slaog said:
Compliment on some things about her that you like. Once in a while is best and maybe the best time to do it is when she leasts expects it.


Make sure the compliments are sincere i.e only compliment the things YOU like about her.
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Agree.

Also, She is your girlfriend, so treat her like your queen, but never lose your "frame". Just like with any interaction with a woman, never expect an outcome.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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you need to learn how to give her genuine and truthful compliments, without inflating her ego or her head about how 'hot' she is or whatever most chumps do
 
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Metaphysical said:
you need to learn how to give her genuine and truthful compliments, without inflating her ego or her head about how 'hot' she is or whatever most chumps do
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I agree totally... And thanks for the feedback everybody.
 
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GAH

As much as I love the DJ Bible I'm getting sick of the bull**** that comes with it.

YOU ARE ALLOWED TO COMPLIMENT GIRLS

Do you guys know naturals in real life? No not jerks that get women but NATURALS who makes women feel good and women love them. They compliment women all the time!

If you have good things in your mind but you aren't saying them you are acting AFC.

At the same time if you are thinking something bad but you compliment her or keep quiet that is also being AFC. You are worrying about this one far too much. You aren't balenced.

The rule to go by if you think about whether you should compliment or not is simply "is this honest?"

Here's a little something else: http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=150876
 
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