"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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My GF has been nagging on me A LOT lately telling me that I don't compliment her enough.. Come to think of it, she is right.. I don't ever compliment her at all, ever... I have many good things to say about her in my mind all the time. However, I know how bad too much complimenting can be. Been there done that.

How is this situation best handled? How can you compliment them JUST enough but not a drop more than you need to?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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logicallefty said:
My GF has been nagging on me A LOT lately telling me that I don't compliment her enough.. Come to think of it, she is right.. I don't ever compliment her at all, ever... I have many good things to say about her in my mind all the time. However, I know how bad too much complimenting can be. Been there done that.

How is this situation best handled? How can you compliment them JUST enough but not a drop more than you need to?
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Does she compliment you?
 
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slaog said:
Compliment on some things about her that you like. Once in a while is best and maybe the best time to do it is when she leasts expects it.


Make sure the compliments are sincere i.e only compliment the things YOU like about her.
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Agree.

Also, She is your girlfriend, so treat her like your queen, but never lose your "frame". Just like with any interaction with a woman, never expect an outcome.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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you need to learn how to give her genuine and truthful compliments, without inflating her ego or her head about how 'hot' she is or whatever most chumps do
 
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Metaphysical said:
you need to learn how to give her genuine and truthful compliments, without inflating her ego or her head about how 'hot' she is or whatever most chumps do
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I agree totally... And thanks for the feedback everybody.
 
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GAH

As much as I love the DJ Bible I'm getting sick of the bull**** that comes with it.

YOU ARE ALLOWED TO COMPLIMENT GIRLS

Do you guys know naturals in real life? No not jerks that get women but NATURALS who makes women feel good and women love them. They compliment women all the time!

If you have good things in your mind but you aren't saying them you are acting AFC.

At the same time if you are thinking something bad but you compliment her or keep quiet that is also being AFC. You are worrying about this one far too much. You aren't balenced.

The rule to go by if you think about whether you should compliment or not is simply "is this honest?"

Here's a little something else: http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=150876
 
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