Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
She rejected what? Or you rejected what? So on business phones and business she talks professional, but outside the business setting she talks very soft spoken? If so she's submitting to you.
No on business phones she talk normal but in face to face she's soft spoken. In the past we went out had drinks and I tried to kiss her but she resisted. I then walked away. Now we work together I keep it professional but every time I have to go interact with her face to face she be soft spoken. When we on businesses phones she talked normal
Softspoken Because she's respecting your masculine presence.
Have you ever had this experience and if so what was the outcome
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
i keep those. Cause even if you can't fvck her she feeds you respect. It's valueable. Much of the world will be at competition with you, feeding you bullshyt.
Oh ok cause all I do is still be cool even tho she rejected me in the past. I dont bring it up or nothing.
Yep I see what you saying. See most men want a female to love them but they forgetting about the respect
don't sick from the interactions though.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
She trying to be seductive. Using her sexuality as an advantage. I doubt she is pretty, you just don't see enough vagina to have enough diversity. Pus deficit in the works!
I dont see enough vagina cause damn near everything is close due to this pandemic. How is she trying to be seductive and why you doubt shes pretty when you never saw her?
That's a good female to talk to. Think about all the masculine females out ther, even if your fvcking em.
Not understanding about dont sick from the interactions.
If one wants to respect me and give me those attentions and tones of voice I will happily oblige. Many are going to be trying to out man you, or one up you in normal life.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Its too many of them masculine females out there and I cant deal with them.
Fvck em... If they wanna be a man, let em be a man by their damn self.
She tried to get what she can get out of me until I put a stop to it and walked away cause she wasnt giving up the pvssy.
this is what we say here, always escalate or remove attention elsewhere if they flake. Potential to get emotionally/mentally sick in the between grey areas of male/female interaction. Got to protect against getting cuckquened or used without some offer of value in return.
Oh ok but it was just a question cause it happen twice. The first time I didnt think nothing of it but when I interacted with her again she was soft spoken so thats why I decided to post a question
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.