"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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My female co worker that rejected well every time we interact at work face to face she is very soft spoken to the point to where I can barely hear her. When we on business phones she talk normal but face to face she soft spoken. I only see her if I have to but even when I do I still keep it professional. Has anyone has this experience and why women does that?
 

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You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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My female co worker that rejected well every time we interact at work face to face she is very soft spoken to the point to where I can barely hear her. When we on business phones she talk normal but face to face she soft spoken. I only see her if I have to but even when I do I still keep it professional. Has anyone has this experience and why women does that?
She rejected what? Or you rejected what? So on business phones and business she talks professional, but outside the business setting she talks very soft spoken? If so she's submitting to you.
 
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She rejected what? Or you rejected what? So on business phones and business she talks professional, but outside the business setting she talks very soft spoken? If so she's submitting to you.
No on business phones she talk normal but in face to face she's soft spoken. In the past we went out had drinks and I tried to kiss her but she resisted. I then walked away. Now we work together I keep it professional but every time I have to go interact with her face to face she be soft spoken. When we on businesses phones she talked normal
 

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No on business phones she talk normal but in face to face she's soft spoken. In the past we went out had drinks and I tried to kiss her but she resisted. I then walked away. Now we work together I keep it professional but every time I have to go interact with her face to face she be soft spoken. When we on businesses phones she talked normal
Softspoken Because she's respecting your masculine presence.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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i keep those. Cause even if you can't fvck her she feeds you respect. It's valueable. Much of the world will be at competition with you, feeding you bullshyt.
Oh ok cause all I do is still be cool even tho she rejected me in the past. I dont bring it up or nothing.
 

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i keep those. Cause even if you can't fvck her she feeds you respect. It's valueable. Much of the world will be at competition with you, feeding you bullshyt.
don't sick from the interactions though.
Measure very carefully the cost-benefit.
Typically men and women aren't friends. Don't get sickened.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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My female co worker that rejected well every time we interact at work face to face she is very soft spoken to the point to where I can barely hear her. When we on business phones she talk normal but face to face she soft spoken. I only see her if I have to but even when I do I still keep it professional. Has anyone has this experience and why women does that?
She trying to be seductive. Using her sexuality as an advantage. I doubt she is pretty, you just don't see enough vagina to have enough diversity. Pus deficit in the works!
 
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She trying to be seductive. Using her sexuality as an advantage. I doubt she is pretty, you just don't see enough vagina to have enough diversity. Pus deficit in the works!
I dont see enough vagina cause damn near everything is close due to this pandemic. How is she trying to be seductive and why you doubt shes pretty when you never saw her?
 

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Oh ok cause all I do is still be cool even tho she rejected me in the past. I dont bring it up or nothing.
That's a good female to talk to. Think about all the masculine females out ther, even if your fvcking em.
 
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don't sick from the interactions though.
Measure very carefully the cost-benefit.
Typically men and women aren't friends. Don't get sickened.
Not understanding about dont sick from the interactions.
 

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don't sick from the interactions though.
Measure very carefully the cost-benefit.
Typically men and women aren't friends. Don't get sickened.
If one wants to respect me and give me those attentions and tones of voice I will happily oblige. Many are going to be trying to out man you, or one up you in normal life.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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If one wants to respect me and give me those attentions and tones of voice I will happily oblige. Many are going to be trying to out man you, or one up you in normal life.
She tried to get what she can get out of me until I put a stop to it and walked away cause she wasnt giving up the pvssy.
 

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She tried to get what she can get out of me until I put a stop to it and walked away cause she wasnt giving up the pvssy.
this is what we say here, always escalate or remove attention elsewhere if they flake. Potential to get emotionally/mentally sick in the between grey areas of male/female interaction. Got to protect against getting cuckquened or used without some offer of value in return.
 
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this is what we say here, always escalate or remove attention elsewhere if they flake. Potential to get emotionally/mentally sick in the between grey areas of male/female interaction. Got to protect against getting cuckquened or used without some offer of value in return.
Oh ok but it was just a question cause it happen twice. The first time I didnt think nothing of it but when I interacted with her again she was soft spoken so thats why I decided to post a question
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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