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My female co worker that rejected well every time we interact at work face to face she is very soft spoken to the point to where I can barely hear her. When we on business phones she talk normal but face to face she soft spoken. I only see her if I have to but even when I do I still keep it professional. Has anyone has this experience and why women does that?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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My female co worker that rejected well every time we interact at work face to face she is very soft spoken to the point to where I can barely hear her. When we on business phones she talk normal but face to face she soft spoken. I only see her if I have to but even when I do I still keep it professional. Has anyone has this experience and why women does that?
She rejected what? Or you rejected what? So on business phones and business she talks professional, but outside the business setting she talks very soft spoken? If so she's submitting to you.
 
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She rejected what? Or you rejected what? So on business phones and business she talks professional, but outside the business setting she talks very soft spoken? If so she's submitting to you.
No on business phones she talk normal but in face to face she's soft spoken. In the past we went out had drinks and I tried to kiss her but she resisted. I then walked away. Now we work together I keep it professional but every time I have to go interact with her face to face she be soft spoken. When we on businesses phones she talked normal
 

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No on business phones she talk normal but in face to face she's soft spoken. In the past we went out had drinks and I tried to kiss her but she resisted. I then walked away. Now we work together I keep it professional but every time I have to go interact with her face to face she be soft spoken. When we on businesses phones she talked normal
Softspoken Because she's respecting your masculine presence.
 

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You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

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i keep those. Cause even if you can't fvck her she feeds you respect. It's valueable. Much of the world will be at competition with you, feeding you bullshyt.
Oh ok cause all I do is still be cool even tho she rejected me in the past. I dont bring it up or nothing.
 

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i keep those. Cause even if you can't fvck her she feeds you respect. It's valueable. Much of the world will be at competition with you, feeding you bullshyt.
don't sick from the interactions though.
Measure very carefully the cost-benefit.
Typically men and women aren't friends. Don't get sickened.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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My female co worker that rejected well every time we interact at work face to face she is very soft spoken to the point to where I can barely hear her. When we on business phones she talk normal but face to face she soft spoken. I only see her if I have to but even when I do I still keep it professional. Has anyone has this experience and why women does that?
She trying to be seductive. Using her sexuality as an advantage. I doubt she is pretty, you just don't see enough vagina to have enough diversity. Pus deficit in the works!
 
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She trying to be seductive. Using her sexuality as an advantage. I doubt she is pretty, you just don't see enough vagina to have enough diversity. Pus deficit in the works!
I dont see enough vagina cause damn near everything is close due to this pandemic. How is she trying to be seductive and why you doubt shes pretty when you never saw her?
 

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Oh ok cause all I do is still be cool even tho she rejected me in the past. I dont bring it up or nothing.
That's a good female to talk to. Think about all the masculine females out ther, even if your fvcking em.
 
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don't sick from the interactions though.
Measure very carefully the cost-benefit.
Typically men and women aren't friends. Don't get sickened.
Not understanding about dont sick from the interactions.
 

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don't sick from the interactions though.
Measure very carefully the cost-benefit.
Typically men and women aren't friends. Don't get sickened.
If one wants to respect me and give me those attentions and tones of voice I will happily oblige. Many are going to be trying to out man you, or one up you in normal life.
 

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Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

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If one wants to respect me and give me those attentions and tones of voice I will happily oblige. Many are going to be trying to out man you, or one up you in normal life.
She tried to get what she can get out of me until I put a stop to it and walked away cause she wasnt giving up the pvssy.
 

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She tried to get what she can get out of me until I put a stop to it and walked away cause she wasnt giving up the pvssy.
this is what we say here, always escalate or remove attention elsewhere if they flake. Potential to get emotionally/mentally sick in the between grey areas of male/female interaction. Got to protect against getting cuckquened or used without some offer of value in return.
 
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this is what we say here, always escalate or remove attention elsewhere if they flake. Potential to get emotionally/mentally sick in the between grey areas of male/female interaction. Got to protect against getting cuckquened or used without some offer of value in return.
Oh ok but it was just a question cause it happen twice. The first time I didnt think nothing of it but when I interacted with her again she was soft spoken so thats why I decided to post a question
 

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Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

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