"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Completely lost my frame on this ltr

JonnyD123

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For reference to the events leading up to this: http://www.sosuave.net/forum/threads/her-friend-is-tearing-us-apart.239822/#post-2416956

Basically we talked. I completely turned into a chump. We still had s*x afterwards. She spent the night. Had s*x again. Things seemed great for a couple days, I was only talking to her when she initiated. Started making plans again, then she dropped a bombshell out of nowhere saying she was "pulling away," and the things I said to her changed our
relationship.
I shouldn't have responded, or maybe just given a short answer but I completely vomited my feelings via text and turned into a huge vaginá. She hasn't responded yet. No hope for this one I'm guessing. Any thoughts besides no contact?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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wifehunter

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Sounds complicated.
 

El Payaso

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Yeah, it's on a decline if it's not already dead.

The best thing you can do now is to start mentally withdrawing and focus on yourself. You've told her how you feel over text. Not the best course of action but it's done. Nothing you can do about it now. She'll either use it to her advantage to get you to supplicate to her even more, dump you outright or pull away even more.

It will be hard but you need to start thinking of her less and focus more on things in your life.
 

AlphaNate

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She's enjoying telling her friends what a p*ssy you are. Stop being a p*ssy. Move on.
 
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