"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Completely lost my frame on this ltr

JonnyD123

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For reference to the events leading up to this: http://www.sosuave.net/forum/threads/her-friend-is-tearing-us-apart.239822/#post-2416956

Basically we talked. I completely turned into a chump. We still had s*x afterwards. She spent the night. Had s*x again. Things seemed great for a couple days, I was only talking to her when she initiated. Started making plans again, then she dropped a bombshell out of nowhere saying she was "pulling away," and the things I said to her changed our
relationship.
I shouldn't have responded, or maybe just given a short answer but I completely vomited my feelings via text and turned into a huge vaginá. She hasn't responded yet. No hope for this one I'm guessing. Any thoughts besides no contact?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Sounds complicated.
 

El Payaso

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Yeah, it's on a decline if it's not already dead.

The best thing you can do now is to start mentally withdrawing and focus on yourself. You've told her how you feel over text. Not the best course of action but it's done. Nothing you can do about it now. She'll either use it to her advantage to get you to supplicate to her even more, dump you outright or pull away even more.

It will be hard but you need to start thinking of her less and focus more on things in your life.
 

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She's enjoying telling her friends what a p*ssy you are. Stop being a p*ssy. Move on.
 
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