"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Completely lost my frame on this ltr

JonnyD123

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For reference to the events leading up to this: http://www.sosuave.net/forum/threads/her-friend-is-tearing-us-apart.239822/#post-2416956

Basically we talked. I completely turned into a chump. We still had s*x afterwards. She spent the night. Had s*x again. Things seemed great for a couple days, I was only talking to her when she initiated. Started making plans again, then she dropped a bombshell out of nowhere saying she was "pulling away," and the things I said to her changed our
relationship.
I shouldn't have responded, or maybe just given a short answer but I completely vomited my feelings via text and turned into a huge vaginá. She hasn't responded yet. No hope for this one I'm guessing. Any thoughts besides no contact?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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wifehunter

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Sounds complicated.
 

El Payaso

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Yeah, it's on a decline if it's not already dead.

The best thing you can do now is to start mentally withdrawing and focus on yourself. You've told her how you feel over text. Not the best course of action but it's done. Nothing you can do about it now. She'll either use it to her advantage to get you to supplicate to her even more, dump you outright or pull away even more.

It will be hard but you need to start thinking of her less and focus more on things in your life.
 

AlphaNate

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She's enjoying telling her friends what a p*ssy you are. Stop being a p*ssy. Move on.
 
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