"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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steelers

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okay i keep comparing myself to other people that are better then me with girls..i'm a beginner and i know i'll be there one day..but i still keep on comparing myself...can anyone help me on that
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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oakraiderz2

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All i can say is stop. Think of how you would ideally like to be and see how well youre doing. Fvck other people.
 

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steelers said:
okay i keep comparing myself to other people that are better then me with girls..i'm a beginner and i know i'll be there one day..but i still keep on comparing myself...can anyone help me on that
Instead of looking at guys and saying to yourself, "Oh man, I wish I was like that.", you might find it more helpful to think, "Wow, that's pretty cool. I wonder how I can incoprorate that into my own game?"
 

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oakraiderz2 said:
All i can say is stop. Think of how you would ideally like to be and see how well youre doing. Fvck other people.

This man delivers
 

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It's ok to compare to an extent.. it's a great way to learn some tips and know what you're doing wrong.. but don't compare to the extent that it makes you depressed or anything.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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