"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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okay i keep comparing myself to other people that are better then me with girls..i'm a beginner and i know i'll be there one day..but i still keep on comparing myself...can anyone help me on that
 

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Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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All i can say is stop. Think of how you would ideally like to be and see how well youre doing. Fvck other people.
 

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steelers said:
okay i keep comparing myself to other people that are better then me with girls..i'm a beginner and i know i'll be there one day..but i still keep on comparing myself...can anyone help me on that
Instead of looking at guys and saying to yourself, "Oh man, I wish I was like that.", you might find it more helpful to think, "Wow, that's pretty cool. I wonder how I can incoprorate that into my own game?"
 

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oakraiderz2 said:
All i can say is stop. Think of how you would ideally like to be and see how well youre doing. Fvck other people.

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It's ok to compare to an extent.. it's a great way to learn some tips and know what you're doing wrong.. but don't compare to the extent that it makes you depressed or anything.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

Read more...

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