"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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okay i keep comparing myself to other people that are better then me with girls..i'm a beginner and i know i'll be there one day..but i still keep on comparing myself...can anyone help me on that
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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All i can say is stop. Think of how you would ideally like to be and see how well youre doing. Fvck other people.
 

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steelers said:
okay i keep comparing myself to other people that are better then me with girls..i'm a beginner and i know i'll be there one day..but i still keep on comparing myself...can anyone help me on that
Instead of looking at guys and saying to yourself, "Oh man, I wish I was like that.", you might find it more helpful to think, "Wow, that's pretty cool. I wonder how I can incoprorate that into my own game?"
 

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oakraiderz2 said:
All i can say is stop. Think of how you would ideally like to be and see how well youre doing. Fvck other people.

This man delivers
 

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It's ok to compare to an extent.. it's a great way to learn some tips and know what you're doing wrong.. but don't compare to the extent that it makes you depressed or anything.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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