Coming To Terms With Yourself

[TheWayOfAllFlesh]

I'm sure at some point a fair few of us had try to come to terms with the fact that it is possible that a member of the opposite sex may actually be interested in them

It's a hard thing to get over and come to terms with, especially for those who had not considered themselves so attractive before

How would someone deal with such a thing, or how have you dealt with it

 

[nateistoraw]

WTF? does this even mean. Shouldn't you be happy if chicks dig you for no reason?

 

[TheWayOfAllFlesh]

WTF? does this even mean. Shouldn't you be happy if chicks dig you for no reason?

It's more the fact that I don't consider myself attractive, so when someone does say I am or feigns interest, I'm suspicious of their motives or if they're just taking the piss

 

[Vice]

So you're saying you have low self esteem.

 

[TheWayOfAllFlesh]

So you're saying you have low self esteem.

No. I know im good looking but still dont see why girls would be interested in me

 

[Vice]

but still dont see why girls would be interested in me

You have low self esteem.

Fix it.

 

[Julian]

whats the point of this thread, you just here to spread some negative vibes or what brah? You want help? Advice? Or just wallow in your foolish thought process? I dont get why people make these douchey threads.

 

[TheWayOfAllFlesh]

whats the point of this thread, you just here to spread some negative vibes or what brah? You want help? Advice? Or just wallow in your foolish thought process? I dont get why people make these douchey threads.

I just wanted to know if anyone else has had my problems before and how they got over them

If I wanted to spread negative vibes id use childish words like 'douchey'

 

[playerone]

Lol.

You are probably new to this stuff, talking to women, attracting women. I wouldn't say i'm very good with women, i still have my issues, but that was what i felt when i first started not very long ago. The thing is, after you open up yourself, feel more comfortable in your own skin around women, you'll naturally feel you have something to offer. You'll feel you're above them. You're a man, and you won't tolerate any form of disrespect. Either they make it up to you, or you leave them behind.

It's that easy but tough to get in the head, free of doubts. That's why you got to keep communicating with women, and make it a habit. It's like a skill you have to practise to maintain or become better at.

Like someone said, the only way to be amazing with women is to think that you already are.