"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Coming acrros as too loopy???

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I was a shy guy before and now I am relaxing more and more...but my best friend says that I come across as too loopy to girls and people in generel(they kind of think I am crazy or something)

Is this bad for women and DJ-ing in general???

What can I do about this???

P.S. While I was explaining to my friend the attributes of the AFC and of the DJ he told me that I shouldn't try to become more enthusiastic,agrresive,seductive,****y and funny....BECAUSE THAT'S JUST NOT ME! what an IDIOT I say
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Amateur_FOR_NOW said:
P.S. While I was explaining to my friend the attributes of the AFC and of the DJ he told me that I shouldn't try to become more enthusiastic,agrresive,seductive,****y and funny....BECAUSE THAT'S JUST NOT ME! what an IDIOT I say
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That's why generally you don't need to talk to your friends about this.
 
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Loopy doesn't work, not even a little.

Confident
Intelligent
Mysterious
Challenging
Funny

Any one of these will work like a charm.
 
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just make sure it comes across as natural. I know some guys who can spout routines perfectly word for word and you just feel its not having any impact. Congruency is a big factor. If it appears learnt off and out of nature, its not gonna work too well
 
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