Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Coming acrros as too loopy???

Amateur_FOR_NOW

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I was a shy guy before and now I am relaxing more and more...but my best friend says that I come across as too loopy to girls and people in generel(they kind of think I am crazy or something)

Is this bad for women and DJ-ing in general???

What can I do about this???

P.S. While I was explaining to my friend the attributes of the AFC and of the DJ he told me that I shouldn't try to become more enthusiastic,agrresive,seductive,****y and funny....BECAUSE THAT'S JUST NOT ME! what an IDIOT I say
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Amateur_FOR_NOW said:
P.S. While I was explaining to my friend the attributes of the AFC and of the DJ he told me that I shouldn't try to become more enthusiastic,agrresive,seductive,****y and funny....BECAUSE THAT'S JUST NOT ME! what an IDIOT I say
That's why generally you don't need to talk to your friends about this.
 

biker_gixxer

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Loopy doesn't work, not even a little.

Confident
Intelligent
Mysterious
Challenging
Funny

Any one of these will work like a charm.
 

vorbis

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just make sure it comes across as natural. I know some guys who can spout routines perfectly word for word and you just feel its not having any impact. Congruency is a big factor. If it appears learnt off and out of nature, its not gonna work too well
 
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