"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Coming acrros as too loopy???

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I was a shy guy before and now I am relaxing more and more...but my best friend says that I come across as too loopy to girls and people in generel(they kind of think I am crazy or something)

Is this bad for women and DJ-ing in general???

What can I do about this???

P.S. While I was explaining to my friend the attributes of the AFC and of the DJ he told me that I shouldn't try to become more enthusiastic,agrresive,seductive,****y and funny....BECAUSE THAT'S JUST NOT ME! what an IDIOT I say
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Amateur_FOR_NOW said:
P.S. While I was explaining to my friend the attributes of the AFC and of the DJ he told me that I shouldn't try to become more enthusiastic,agrresive,seductive,****y and funny....BECAUSE THAT'S JUST NOT ME! what an IDIOT I say
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That's why generally you don't need to talk to your friends about this.
 
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Loopy doesn't work, not even a little.

Confident
Intelligent
Mysterious
Challenging
Funny

Any one of these will work like a charm.
 
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just make sure it comes across as natural. I know some guys who can spout routines perfectly word for word and you just feel its not having any impact. Congruency is a big factor. If it appears learnt off and out of nature, its not gonna work too well
 
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