"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
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dude i have to agree with the guy above me... thats hilarious!!!Sean Cameron said:
AHAHAH!!!
anyways... we can't suggest a certain cologne... they have to match your body chemistry (yeah something you're hear from cologne sellers)...
pretty much don't ask us. go to the mall department store and ask for help from mens cologne people... then go around, if you want, and ask random girls what they think of it. << works better if you spray it on your neck after choosing the one you like after choosing the cologne sprayed on paper cards.
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My only advice is to pick one cologne and stick with it. I personally use Curve classic and in my circle it's known as my scent. I've had a bunch of girls tell me they were out at night... passed by a guy wearing Curve... and started to think about me
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
curiousguy said:Man.. I agree... cologne is a cool way to start talking to random people.
My only advice is to pick one cologne and stick with it. I personally use Curve classic and in my circle it's known as my scent. I've had a bunch of girls tell me they were out at night... passed by a guy wearing Curve... and started to think about me
You should try Perry Ellis 360 Blue. I used to wear Curve but dumped that sh!t in the trash for 360. Literally. Try it.
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Sean Cameron knows this from experience.Sean Cameron said:
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
interesting. i use some of that stuff too.Berlex said:
if the OP doesnt mind i have a question. how effective are bodysprays like axe and Bod? do they actually smell good to women. to me they smell god, but how effective are they?
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
farenheit and clinique happy.
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.