"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
cologne suggestions
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
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dude i have to agree with the guy above me... thats hilarious!!!Sean Cameron said:
AHAHAH!!!
anyways... we can't suggest a certain cologne... they have to match your body chemistry (yeah something you're hear from cologne sellers)...
pretty much don't ask us. go to the mall department store and ask for help from mens cologne people... then go around, if you want, and ask random girls what they think of it. << works better if you spray it on your neck after choosing the one you like after choosing the cologne sprayed on paper cards.
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My only advice is to pick one cologne and stick with it. I personally use Curve classic and in my circle it's known as my scent. I've had a bunch of girls tell me they were out at night... passed by a guy wearing Curve... and started to think about me
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
curiousguy said:Man.. I agree... cologne is a cool way to start talking to random people.
My only advice is to pick one cologne and stick with it. I personally use Curve classic and in my circle it's known as my scent. I've had a bunch of girls tell me they were out at night... passed by a guy wearing Curve... and started to think about me
You should try Perry Ellis 360 Blue. I used to wear Curve but dumped that sh!t in the trash for 360. Literally. Try it.
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Sean Cameron knows this from experience.Sean Cameron said:
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
interesting. i use some of that stuff too.Berlex said:
if the OP doesnt mind i have a question. how effective are bodysprays like axe and Bod? do they actually smell good to women. to me they smell god, but how effective are they?
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
farenheit and clinique happy.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.