"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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College Students Are Oversensitive Pansies

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Some guy dressed up in traditional Mexican clothing and went to 2 areas in Los Angeles. He went to the campus of the University of California-Los Angeles (UCLA) and then to Olvera Street (a historically Mexican area north of Downtown Los Angeles).

Here's what happened....


Why were the college students offended by this and why were the actual Mexicans/Mexican-Americans not offended?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Why were the college students offended by this and why were the actual Mexicans/Mexican-Americans not offended?
You know the answer: because they're shvt-brained retards who cannot think for themselves and have been programmed.
 

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College kids are programmed to be modern-day Stasi.
 

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White saviour complex. Minorities are too victimized to come out by themselves so the big brave strong white woman robin diangelo has to come and rescue them and expand her religion to all impressionable kids.

Used to think I was at a disadvantage for not going to college, but seems like it just made me skip ahead 15 years in terms of personal and professional development.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I always found the concept of "cultural appropriation" to be hilarious. If a white guy wearing a Mexican outfit is cultural apportion, then surely a Mexican dressed in a pair of jeans and a t-shirt is also cultural appropriation? Or how about an African in a business suit?
 
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I always found the concept of "cultural appropriation" to be hilarious. If a white guy wearing a Mexican outfit is cultural apportion, then surely a Mexican dressed in a pair of jeans and a t-shirt is also cultural apparition? Or how about an African wearing a business suit?
The answer is no. This a pretty bad comparison.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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The answer is no. This a pretty bad comparison.
How so exactly? The guy in the video is only being a caricature to prove a larger point.
 

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Hilarious...it's because they need to find something to be "up in arms about" because they have nothing else to do in life.

All the Mexicans were like "We love it!"
All the white people were like "Cultural Appropriation!"
 

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I love my daughter very much, shes 13, I noticed recently she is gaining weight, her mom encourages her to do nothing and she stops in a lot speaking to her mates. literally ZERO fitness going on.

Anyway I asked her in a cool way to weigh herself and we will do some excersize together.

fast forward 3 weeks she was apparently mortified I weighed her, and I got a letter from social services and patronised by the school counsellor.

The literally put words in my daughters mouth on how abused she felt being weighed.

yet the school and her mom who encourage obesity arent the bad guys. Its hilarious
 

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Used to think I was at a disadvantage for not going to college, but seems like it just made me skip ahead 15 years in terms of personal and professional development.
It's depressing seeing what's going on. I remember when I went to college there was none of this nonsense. And people of different races just talked to each other like normal people looking to learn a marketable skill, because that's why we there. And that's what we received. Now it sounds like the kids are only there to be brainwashed and indoctrinated.
 

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fast forward 3 weeks she was apparently mortified I weighed her, and I got a letter from social services and patronised by the school counsellor.

The literally put words in my daughters mouth on how abused she felt being weighed.

yet the school and her mom who encourage obesity arent the bad guys. Its hilarious
This is the MOST F-ED UP! Dung I have read in a long time. Our world is being flushed by "those people".
When I was growing up I thought most people were cool. Now that I'm older I see people "humans" as deplorable.
I love my Dog because he's not going to backstab me. Just wants a treat.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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I love my daughter very much, shes 13, I noticed recently she is gaining weight, her mom encourages her to do nothing and she stops in a lot speaking to her mates. literally ZERO fitness going on.

Anyway I asked her in a cool way to weigh herself and we will do some excersize together.

fast forward 3 weeks she was apparently mortified I weighed her, and I got a letter from social services and patronised by the school counsellor.

The literally put words in my daughters mouth on how abused she felt being weighed.

yet the school and her mom who encourage obesity arent the bad guys. Its hilarious
If you encouraged her to dress like a dude and take testosterone, I bet you’d win the dad of the year award at her school. We live in very fvcked up times.
 

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Cultural appropriation is just wokespeak for shut up and keep to your race.
 

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I always found the concept of "cultural appropriation" to be hilarious. If a white guy wearing a Mexican outfit is cultural apportion, then surely a Mexican dressed in a pair of jeans and a t-shirt is also cultural appropriation? Or how about an African in a business suit?
I've always made the same point. So, it just boils down to blatant anti-White Racism, pure and simple, added with obvious hypocrisy.
 
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