"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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College- she has a bf from home (3000 miles away)

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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TopGun2000

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lets face it. either she's not into you or just gaming you. otherwise she would have dumped her "bf" in a heartbeat and probably wouldn't even mention it to you. but guess she's dtf just don't lose yourself in her little game.
 
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leather238 said:
Okay, here's a little about me. I spent my freshman year sleeping around with as many attractive women as possible. I have no problems getting girls and have "it" down. Please don't try to convince me i don't (i'm a master don juan under a different username and haven't been an afc for about 2 years now), i just want you to give me advice regarding this situation.
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Liar, but I won't hold it against you. Just be honest and admit that, like all of us, you are here to learn.

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Do I keep making all the right moves and build her interest, allt he while still continuing with the other girls and new ones as well?

or should I completely avoid her as much as possible until she's single?

My thinking is: She's not the type that wants to be single so she wouldn't leave her bf unless she knows there's a better guy ahead (me). I figure I'll keep making the right moves, and slowly progress on the kino (which she first initiated, and now does so 2/3 times.
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Of course, having a boyfriend (or even a husband) means nothing. Any guy who has been with more than a couple of chicks knows this.

Keep making the moves with her, while also continuing to see other girls as well.

Just don't waste too much time escalating though - if she is already giving kino then she is prime for picking. You should be looking to nail her @ss to the bed ASAP.

If you were as good as you say you are, you woudn't be in this circle jerk fest asking questions, you'd be out there doing that right now. She is giving all the signs so go for it.

Fvck any moralistic b/s about whether she has a boyfriend or not. That is just something loser guys spread around to try and shame other guys into not taking the only piece of pvssy they can pick up away from them.

If he is 3000 miles away, he is NOT her boyfriend.

He is likely just a f@ggot loser guy who she uses to convince herself that she is not single and alone, whilst taking the opportunity to fvck the brains out of whatever guy takes her fancy.

Might as well be you.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Don't bother with girls that have a boyfriend. If she's 3,000 miles away she'll eventually dump him. That is, if this boyfriend even exists.
 
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Do not get into a relationship in college. There's no point as there is plenty of quality tail and now is the time to do crazy stuff. You'll only hold bitterness and resentment if you do.
 
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