"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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College- she has a bf from home (3000 miles away)

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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TopGun2000

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lets face it. either she's not into you or just gaming you. otherwise she would have dumped her "bf" in a heartbeat and probably wouldn't even mention it to you. but guess she's dtf just don't lose yourself in her little game.
 

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leather238 said:
Okay, here's a little about me. I spent my freshman year sleeping around with as many attractive women as possible. I have no problems getting girls and have "it" down. Please don't try to convince me i don't (i'm a master don juan under a different username and haven't been an afc for about 2 years now), i just want you to give me advice regarding this situation.
Liar, but I won't hold it against you. Just be honest and admit that, like all of us, you are here to learn.

leather238 said:
Do I keep making all the right moves and build her interest, allt he while still continuing with the other girls and new ones as well?

or should I completely avoid her as much as possible until she's single?

My thinking is: She's not the type that wants to be single so she wouldn't leave her bf unless she knows there's a better guy ahead (me). I figure I'll keep making the right moves, and slowly progress on the kino (which she first initiated, and now does so 2/3 times.
Of course, having a boyfriend (or even a husband) means nothing. Any guy who has been with more than a couple of chicks knows this.

Keep making the moves with her, while also continuing to see other girls as well.

Just don't waste too much time escalating though - if she is already giving kino then she is prime for picking. You should be looking to nail her @ss to the bed ASAP.

If you were as good as you say you are, you woudn't be in this circle jerk fest asking questions, you'd be out there doing that right now. She is giving all the signs so go for it.

Fvck any moralistic b/s about whether she has a boyfriend or not. That is just something loser guys spread around to try and shame other guys into not taking the only piece of pvssy they can pick up away from them.

If he is 3000 miles away, he is NOT her boyfriend.

He is likely just a f@ggot loser guy who she uses to convince herself that she is not single and alone, whilst taking the opportunity to fvck the brains out of whatever guy takes her fancy.

Might as well be you.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Alex DeLarge

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Don't bother with girls that have a boyfriend. If she's 3,000 miles away she'll eventually dump him. That is, if this boyfriend even exists.
 

The_411

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Do not get into a relationship in college. There's no point as there is plenty of quality tail and now is the time to do crazy stuff. You'll only hold bitterness and resentment if you do.
 
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