Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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College- she has a bf from home (3000 miles away)

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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TopGun2000

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lets face it. either she's not into you or just gaming you. otherwise she would have dumped her "bf" in a heartbeat and probably wouldn't even mention it to you. but guess she's dtf just don't lose yourself in her little game.
 

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leather238 said:
Okay, here's a little about me. I spent my freshman year sleeping around with as many attractive women as possible. I have no problems getting girls and have "it" down. Please don't try to convince me i don't (i'm a master don juan under a different username and haven't been an afc for about 2 years now), i just want you to give me advice regarding this situation.
Liar, but I won't hold it against you. Just be honest and admit that, like all of us, you are here to learn.

leather238 said:
Do I keep making all the right moves and build her interest, allt he while still continuing with the other girls and new ones as well?

or should I completely avoid her as much as possible until she's single?

My thinking is: She's not the type that wants to be single so she wouldn't leave her bf unless she knows there's a better guy ahead (me). I figure I'll keep making the right moves, and slowly progress on the kino (which she first initiated, and now does so 2/3 times.
Of course, having a boyfriend (or even a husband) means nothing. Any guy who has been with more than a couple of chicks knows this.

Keep making the moves with her, while also continuing to see other girls as well.

Just don't waste too much time escalating though - if she is already giving kino then she is prime for picking. You should be looking to nail her @ss to the bed ASAP.

If you were as good as you say you are, you woudn't be in this circle jerk fest asking questions, you'd be out there doing that right now. She is giving all the signs so go for it.

Fvck any moralistic b/s about whether she has a boyfriend or not. That is just something loser guys spread around to try and shame other guys into not taking the only piece of pvssy they can pick up away from them.

If he is 3000 miles away, he is NOT her boyfriend.

He is likely just a f@ggot loser guy who she uses to convince herself that she is not single and alone, whilst taking the opportunity to fvck the brains out of whatever guy takes her fancy.

Might as well be you.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Alex DeLarge

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Don't bother with girls that have a boyfriend. If she's 3,000 miles away she'll eventually dump him. That is, if this boyfriend even exists.
 

The_411

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Do not get into a relationship in college. There's no point as there is plenty of quality tail and now is the time to do crazy stuff. You'll only hold bitterness and resentment if you do.
 
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