leather238
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She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
You don't have IT down. And quit trolling.I have no problems getting girls and have "it" down
Liar, but I won't hold it against you. Just be honest and admit that, like all of us, you are here to learn.leather238 said:Okay, here's a little about me. I spent my freshman year sleeping around with as many attractive women as possible. I have no problems getting girls and have "it" down. Please don't try to convince me i don't (i'm a master don juan under a different username and haven't been an afc for about 2 years now), i just want you to give me advice regarding this situation.
Of course, having a boyfriend (or even a husband) means nothing. Any guy who has been with more than a couple of chicks knows this.leather238 said:Do I keep making all the right moves and build her interest, allt he while still continuing with the other girls and new ones as well?
or should I completely avoid her as much as possible until she's single?
My thinking is: She's not the type that wants to be single so she wouldn't leave her bf unless she knows there's a better guy ahead (me). I figure I'll keep making the right moves, and slowly progress on the kino (which she first initiated, and now does so 2/3 times.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.