Dhoulmagus
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I'm majoring in something lucrative and I'm trying to maintain my focus, but god this place sucks. Please tell me it gets better after graduation.
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
This pretty much sums it up. If you hate it, just leave. If you stay, you are basically accepting everything that happens to you.SmooveMooves said:Transfer . Leave the school. if your not happy with something change it. Be a man and start making decisions that will benefit you and make you happy .I know I was going through something similar, I would try my hardest to get away. Stop feeling sorry for yourself, stop b1tching, and stop with these sorry posts. "I wish I was gay" Is not something any grown man who deserves respect would say.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
True but it might not be easy for him to just up and leave schools at a whim. The school might have one of the best programs in his degree or he is almost done with his degree or his life is based in that state. Who knows?SmooveMooves said:Transfer . Leave the school. if your not happy with something change it. Be a man and start making decisions that will benefit you and make you happy .I know I was going through something similar, I would try my hardest to get away. Stop feeling sorry for yourself, stop b1tching, and stop with these sorry posts. "I wish I was gay" Is not something any grown man who deserves respect would say.