Dhoulmagus
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I'm majoring in something lucrative and I'm trying to maintain my focus, but god this place sucks. Please tell me it gets better after graduation.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
College is nothing more than a daycare for young adults
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
What I am getting from your posts is that you go to some school in the bible belt, and because you're not white, you're not getting laid.
Have you ever tried talking to chicks in your classes? They are not as racist as you think they are. Especially if you're funny. Race is only an issue if you make it one.
Have you ever tried talking to chicks in your classes? They are not as racist as you think they are. Especially if you're funny. Race is only an issue if you make it one.
Dhoulmagus
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I come from a town with an active kkk chapter. I had teachers in my high school get called n*gger and get run out of the school. Hell, I got in a fight because some f***** called me a n*gger. I still was optimistic/positive then. My college campus in my experience is 10 times worse. They don't give two **** about blacks unless you have a ball in your hand. All those KKK/white power racists let their defense down once they realized I was proper and not savage like. These self entitled/over sheltered little college conservative brats from cozy suburbia are worse.
SmooveMooves
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Transfer . Leave the school. if your not happy with something change it. Be a man and start making decisions that will benefit you and make you happy .I know I was going through something similar, I would try my hardest to get away. Stop feeling sorry for yourself, stop b1tching, and stop with these sorry posts. "I wish I was gay" Is not something any grown man who deserves respect would say.
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Dhoulmagus
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I would be homeless
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True but it might not be easy for him to just up and leave schools at a whim. The school might have one of the best programs in his degree or he is almost done with his degree or his life is based in that state. Who knows?SmooveMooves said: