Dhoulmagus
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I'm majoring in something lucrative and I'm trying to maintain my focus, but god this place sucks. Please tell me it gets better after graduation.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
This pretty much sums it up. If you hate it, just leave. If you stay, you are basically accepting everything that happens to you.SmooveMooves said:Transfer . Leave the school. if your not happy with something change it. Be a man and start making decisions that will benefit you and make you happy .I know I was going through something similar, I would try my hardest to get away. Stop feeling sorry for yourself, stop b1tching, and stop with these sorry posts. "I wish I was gay" Is not something any grown man who deserves respect would say.
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
True but it might not be easy for him to just up and leave schools at a whim. The school might have one of the best programs in his degree or he is almost done with his degree or his life is based in that state. Who knows?SmooveMooves said:Transfer . Leave the school. if your not happy with something change it. Be a man and start making decisions that will benefit you and make you happy .I know I was going through something similar, I would try my hardest to get away. Stop feeling sorry for yourself, stop b1tching, and stop with these sorry posts. "I wish I was gay" Is not something any grown man who deserves respect would say.