Dhoulmagus
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I'm majoring in something lucrative and I'm trying to maintain my focus, but god this place sucks. Please tell me it gets better after graduation.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
College is nothing more than a daycare for young adults
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
What I am getting from your posts is that you go to some school in the bible belt, and because you're not white, you're not getting laid.
Have you ever tried talking to chicks in your classes? They are not as racist as you think they are. Especially if you're funny. Race is only an issue if you make it one.
Have you ever tried talking to chicks in your classes? They are not as racist as you think they are. Especially if you're funny. Race is only an issue if you make it one.
Dhoulmagus
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I come from a town with an active kkk chapter. I had teachers in my high school get called n*gger and get run out of the school. Hell, I got in a fight because some f***** called me a n*gger. I still was optimistic/positive then. My college campus in my experience is 10 times worse. They don't give two **** about blacks unless you have a ball in your hand. All those KKK/white power racists let their defense down once they realized I was proper and not savage like. These self entitled/over sheltered little college conservative brats from cozy suburbia are worse.
SmooveMooves
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Transfer . Leave the school. if your not happy with something change it. Be a man and start making decisions that will benefit you and make you happy .I know I was going through something similar, I would try my hardest to get away. Stop feeling sorry for yourself, stop b1tching, and stop with these sorry posts. "I wish I was gay" Is not something any grown man who deserves respect would say.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Dhoulmagus
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I would be homeless
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True but it might not be easy for him to just up and leave schools at a whim. The school might have one of the best programs in his degree or he is almost done with his degree or his life is based in that state. Who knows?SmooveMooves said: