"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Tookie

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Good day, I been in college for awhile and dating some too. I know when I see a chick get the digits and etc call get date. What I ponder on is what to do when the you and the chick live in the same dorm. Do you ask for her digits or her room number and do you ask her on a date or do you just pay random visit to her room. Dating or getting to know a chick in the same dorm is so confusing to me because I'm not sure how to got about it. You guys got any advice.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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get the cell #, and always call for the date; don't just drop by

I'll leave it to you to figure out some things to do, but eating, drinking, socializing, and partying are some broad categories you might look at
 

Tookie

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So just treat it like normal as if we don't live a couple of floors apart right?
 

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Be extra careful not to do anything which might creep her out or make her uncomfortable around you. Even if you guys don't click, aim to stay friendly because she just lives down the dorm.
 
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