"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

Read more...

College, dating, questions

Tookie

Don Juan
Joined
Jul 15, 2006
Messages
72
Reaction score
0
Good day, I been in college for awhile and dating some too. I know when I see a chick get the digits and etc call get date. What I ponder on is what to do when the you and the chick live in the same dorm. Do you ask for her digits or her room number and do you ask her on a date or do you just pay random visit to her room. Dating or getting to know a chick in the same dorm is so confusing to me because I'm not sure how to got about it. You guys got any advice.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

Read more...

Obsidian

Master Don Juan
Joined
Apr 17, 2006
Messages
2,554
Reaction score
26
Location
TN
get the cell #, and always call for the date; don't just drop by

I'll leave it to you to figure out some things to do, but eating, drinking, socializing, and partying are some broad categories you might look at
 

Tookie

Don Juan
Joined
Jul 15, 2006
Messages
72
Reaction score
0
So just treat it like normal as if we don't live a couple of floors apart right?
 

PlaysToWin

Don Juan
Joined
Nov 27, 2007
Messages
125
Reaction score
4
Location
London
Be extra careful not to do anything which might creep her out or make her uncomfortable around you. Even if you guys don't click, aim to stay friendly because she just lives down the dorm.
 
Top