"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Good day, I been in college for awhile and dating some too. I know when I see a chick get the digits and etc call get date. What I ponder on is what to do when the you and the chick live in the same dorm. Do you ask for her digits or her room number and do you ask her on a date or do you just pay random visit to her room. Dating or getting to know a chick in the same dorm is so confusing to me because I'm not sure how to got about it. You guys got any advice.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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get the cell #, and always call for the date; don't just drop by

I'll leave it to you to figure out some things to do, but eating, drinking, socializing, and partying are some broad categories you might look at
 

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So just treat it like normal as if we don't live a couple of floors apart right?
 

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Be extra careful not to do anything which might creep her out or make her uncomfortable around you. Even if you guys don't click, aim to stay friendly because she just lives down the dorm.
 
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