"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Tookie

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Good day, I been in college for awhile and dating some too. I know when I see a chick get the digits and etc call get date. What I ponder on is what to do when the you and the chick live in the same dorm. Do you ask for her digits or her room number and do you ask her on a date or do you just pay random visit to her room. Dating or getting to know a chick in the same dorm is so confusing to me because I'm not sure how to got about it. You guys got any advice.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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get the cell #, and always call for the date; don't just drop by

I'll leave it to you to figure out some things to do, but eating, drinking, socializing, and partying are some broad categories you might look at
 

Tookie

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So just treat it like normal as if we don't live a couple of floors apart right?
 

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Be extra careful not to do anything which might creep her out or make her uncomfortable around you. Even if you guys don't click, aim to stay friendly because she just lives down the dorm.
 
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