idiot_boyfriend
Senior Don Juan
I'm working on my style, and I'm just wondering how you guys feel about the collar's "position".
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Collar question
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
I wear the collar up on polo shirts sometimes, mainly just because it's controversial/borders on self-parody.
If you wear it up, the thing to remember is you basically have to be a confident, ****y assh0le. Other guys will probably try to give you sh1t about it and you have to be prepared to shut them down. If you're gonna go collar up, you need to bring your A+ game to back it up. If you're at all timid or you get flustered by negative comments, you're just gonna look like a wannabe.
If you wear it up, the thing to remember is you basically have to be a confident, ****y assh0le. Other guys will probably try to give you sh1t about it and you have to be prepared to shut them down. If you're gonna go collar up, you need to bring your A+ game to back it up. If you're at all timid or you get flustered by negative comments, you're just gonna look like a wannabe.
naoi deag se deag
Senior Don Juan
I hear all the time that you have to be able to pull the collar-popped style off. Then I see all these COMPLETE DORKS with their 5'10", 120-pound frame and their collars popped and I wonder what exactly they're pulling off. Leave your collar down, dude.
Well, those would be examples of guys who AREN'T pulling it off...Originally posted by naoi deag se deag
I hear all the time that you have to be able to pull the collar-popped style off. Then I see all these COMPLETE DORKS with their 5'10", 120-pound frame and their collars popped and I wonder what exactly they're pulling off.
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.