"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Collar question

Collar up or collar down?

  • Collar Up

    Votes: 3 16.7%

  • Collar Down

    Votes: 15 83.3%
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idiot_boyfriend

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I'm working on my style, and I'm just wondering how you guys feel about the collar's "position".
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Interpol

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I wear the collar up on polo shirts sometimes, mainly just because it's controversial/borders on self-parody.

If you wear it up, the thing to remember is you basically have to be a confident, ****y assh0le. Other guys will probably try to give you sh1t about it and you have to be prepared to shut them down. If you're gonna go collar up, you need to bring your A+ game to back it up. If you're at all timid or you get flustered by negative comments, you're just gonna look like a wannabe.
 
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You better keep those collars down... And if on the occasion you feel like being a fag for a day, don't pop a pink shirts collar.
 
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naoi deag se deag

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I hear all the time that you have to be able to pull the collar-popped style off. Then I see all these COMPLETE DORKS with their 5'10", 120-pound frame and their collars popped and I wonder what exactly they're pulling off. Leave your collar down, dude.
 
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Originally posted by naoi deag se deag
I hear all the time that you have to be able to pull the collar-popped style off. Then I see all these COMPLETE DORKS with their 5'10", 120-pound frame and their collars popped and I wonder what exactly they're pulling off.
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Well, those would be examples of guys who AREN'T pulling it off...
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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M2k961

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Don't be stupid.... Wear shirts how they were meant to be worn and stop imitating low-lifes. If you want to stand out change your personality and stop relying on your clothing to do it for you.
 
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