"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Collar question

Collar up or collar down?

  • Collar Up

    Votes: 3 16.7%

  • Collar Down

    Votes: 15 83.3%
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idiot_boyfriend

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I'm working on my style, and I'm just wondering how you guys feel about the collar's "position".
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Interpol

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I wear the collar up on polo shirts sometimes, mainly just because it's controversial/borders on self-parody.

If you wear it up, the thing to remember is you basically have to be a confident, ****y assh0le. Other guys will probably try to give you sh1t about it and you have to be prepared to shut them down. If you're gonna go collar up, you need to bring your A+ game to back it up. If you're at all timid or you get flustered by negative comments, you're just gonna look like a wannabe.
 
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You better keep those collars down... And if on the occasion you feel like being a fag for a day, don't pop a pink shirts collar.
 
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naoi deag se deag

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I hear all the time that you have to be able to pull the collar-popped style off. Then I see all these COMPLETE DORKS with their 5'10", 120-pound frame and their collars popped and I wonder what exactly they're pulling off. Leave your collar down, dude.
 
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Originally posted by naoi deag se deag
I hear all the time that you have to be able to pull the collar-popped style off. Then I see all these COMPLETE DORKS with their 5'10", 120-pound frame and their collars popped and I wonder what exactly they're pulling off.
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Well, those would be examples of guys who AREN'T pulling it off...
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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M2k961

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Don't be stupid.... Wear shirts how they were meant to be worn and stop imitating low-lifes. If you want to stand out change your personality and stop relying on your clothing to do it for you.
 
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